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That said, I know other people who think a simple kick-it session, like meeting up at a party or chilling at the house, is a "date." So what is a date? Is it determined by intention? Money? Does the definition vary by gender? And could you accidentally go on a date with someone and not know it?
Bonus question: for same sex daters, how does that work out?? I have the cozy benefit of old (outdated) and deep seated gender rules, but how does it work when you're gay or lesbian?